testing the limits

all these wedding preparations can truly push you and test your limits. i'm talking about joseph's and mine. it's a given that no two people are ever the same and i realize as well that everyone is entitled to their own opinions. but, more importantly, i think it's how you guys come into terms with all of these differences.

sometimes, we're doing okay with the joint decisions. sometimes, we're not, especially when somebody's tired or had a rough day. sometimes we wonder why we ever argued in the first place. must be the stress. in cases like this, we have somehow managed to stay sane and hear each other out, never to take anything personal. i guess this is what matters the most.

oh, and another thing i learned in this lifetime, you can NEVER EVER please everybody. self-explanatory.

last night, we were arguing about the invites. today, we're okay na. well, all's well that ends well.